Oh, is that what decides who’s a top, lol. Hmm, I wouldn’t say rude, necessarily, although their landlady kind of deserves it.
You remember how she was with Sergio when they met, right? Here’s an early interaction with Panchito: https://wlext.net/series/amar-a-muerte?server=gounlimitedto&episode=013 Skip to 24:47. Sorry the subtitles are so rough. She’s just kinda brusque, like putting up a wall. When you consider her life, it makes so much sense, she can’t let herself get attached to or depend on anyone.
She really did connect instantly with Val in a way she hasn’t with anybody else, and Val with her.