It seems that the excitement for the half of it is misplaced and will only lead to whining about the movie after it comes out, people have been selling it as this glorious lesbian romcom when it really isn’t.

Ah, well, if the ending holds, maybe, although I wouldn’t characterize it as “whining”, I think people are allowed to be upset at the difference in what’s available. When you see Netflix put out a bunch of m/f romcoms and then one f/f movie which totally reads like a romcom, if it’s not…I get it. 

But of course on the flip side, Alice Wu is entitled to make whatever she wants, she’s not solely responsible for making up for decades of underrepresentation (especially when she made one of the first good and still tragically rare f/f romcoms we DO have) and people shouldn’t go after the cast or crew or even fans who do like it or ruin it for them. It’s always a balance, right, unless something is clearly deliberate and egregious, stick with criticizing the trends more than individual creators, don’t fill the tags with hate, etc. 

And maybe it won’t be so bad, Portrait of a Lady on Fire wasn’t the happiest ending but the f/f community embraced it. And this ending should be happier than that, at least. And you know, I realize you might be talking about two different reasons people’ll be disappointed, both the ending and the fact that it’s more about a friendship between Ellie and the dude, but Saving Face wasn’t just between Viv and Wil either. In fact, it had not only Wil and her mom but the whole separate subplot of Wil’s mom and her bf. And most of us were okay with it. It depends a lot on how it’s done and Alice Wu is pretty skilled at balancing it all. 

bluestalking-fox:

delladilly:

[snipped again]

The most upsetting thing I can realistically imagine coming out of all this isn’t John Green’s reputation being ruined (it won’t be), it’s that there are teenagers who are being harassed or creeped on or abused at all levels who are going to see this incident and think, “I’m probably overreacting and even if I’m not, I’d better not say anything because this is what will happen to me.” And they’ll be right. How can we tell any kid it will be different for them, especially if they dared to use scarier words than “creepy”? What happens to another kid talking about another adult, who might need to say “rape”? Well, we know what happens. We have so many stories that tell us the answer to that, and it’s a horrific answer. So it turns out now that even saying “creepy” gets you castigated on national news. God forbid you suggest anything worse.

bluestalking-fox:

delladilly:

[snipped again]

The most upsetting thing I can realistically imagine coming out of all this isn’t John Green’s reputation being ruined (it won’t be), it’s that there are teenagers who are being harassed or creeped on or abused at all levels who are going to see this incident and think, “I’m probably overreacting and even if I’m not, I’d better not say anything because this is what will happen to me.” And they’ll be right. How can we tell any kid it will be different for them, especially if they dared to use scarier words than “creepy”? What happens to another kid talking about another adult, who might need to say “rape”? Well, we know what happens. We have so many stories that tell us the answer to that, and it’s a horrific answer. So it turns out now that even saying “creepy” gets you castigated on national news. God forbid you suggest anything worse.

Hawaii Five 0 fandom

tiiuliciously:

One thing I really hate about the H50 fandom is the idea that if you hate Catherine you must hate strong women and/or you’re a delusional McDanno shipper.

First of all, I don’t hate strong women. Hello, my second favorite character after Danny is Kono who is perhaps the most kick ass woman on television. I also don’t hate Rachel who is awesomely snooty and British. I also don’t hate Gabby who is sweet and nice, if not a little bland. I mainly just hate Cath who has been shoved down my throat as the most awesomest Mary Sue ever who is perfect. Besides, she’s hardly a strong woman anyway. Her main purpose is to prance about in little clothing and act as Steve’s non-girlfriend. Outside of that, she’s pretty much useless.

Is she the most awesomest Mary Sue or is she pretty much useless and Steve’s non-girlfriend? Pick one. And get out of the tag.

Oh, and “prance about in little clothing”? Yeah, okay, clearly you do love women.