OMG, please don’t feel like you have to explain yourself to me :( I get it; it’s admittedly a little different, but my grandparents were arranged too. But I mean, I didn’t mean to make you anxious or anything? I just liked the hair story xD I’m glad your cousin and her husband get along though :D my grandparents stayed married until death; my grandfather passed away two weeks after my grandmother. He always did seem to adore her.

Oh, no, I didn’t mean you when I implied some people only focus on the negative parts, just in general. Your ask was lovely! I just wanted to elaborate on how it happened.