What word do I use to indicate women that aren’t straight? I used to say gay or lesbian and eventually realized how inaccurate that was and went to queer as a catchall, but I know some people dislike it because it’s a slur and I understand that.

What can I use that isn’t cumbersome or limiting? I don’t really want to use lesbian/bi/pan/queer or non-straight (and they won’t tag well), but I can’t actually think of anything else?